Just a thought about why some girls are willing to be the third party to a guy who's in relationship.

And ya, the following advice sounds like I'm a traitor to some guy's 'trade secret' in luring the third party girl friend but ya, here are my advice for them.

1) There's no good bitch or bad bitch - as long as you are interfering a couple's relationship, you are a bitch
2) It is his problem to be a womaniser,being unfaithful to his girl friend / wife - and you don't have to be part of his problem.
3) He should solve his problem by himself. You can't solve his problem - so don't be part of his problem, which is the first thing to do
4) The reason why he can (have time to) do all this is because he has a stabilised life, which is partly contributed by his loving gf/wife who would contribute without questioning
5) Having said that, he won't appreciate someone who loves him - so he won't appreciate yours, too.
6) Just imagine if his gf/wife chose to leave him - the first thing he'll do is to chase her back, not you - because you are nobody to him
7) And yes, if by getting the things you want from him, which he can get additional free sex (else, what do u think that he wants from you? A love that he won't appreciate his current gf /wife in the first place?) - why not? He'll do all he can do get this free stuff
8) You have the ability to earn your own livings, so please respect yourself
9) With the $$ you earn by yourself, you can take control of your life
10) I believe in karma. What goes around will come around - so start doing the right thing before it's too late

And surprisingly, if you convert the statement to fit for a guy, who's involved as a third party in a girl's relationship - most points are still valid.

So, please, don't ever involve yourself as a third party in a relationship - it will, in most case, bring in more sorrow/suffer/pain/guilt/hurt than the short happiness that you gain.